Why I Wrote The Real Cost of Sex Outside Marriage


📚 The year was 2010. I was preparing to speak briefly during an all-night youth meeting of the church where I was serving at the time. As I studied the story of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife, the Holy Spirit interrupted my thoughts with a truth that shook me:

"There is no such thing as free or cheap sex anywhere. Every sex you have outside marriage, you pay for it with a piece of your destiny."

That revelation struck deep. I had never thought about it that way before.

Fast forward to earlier late last year—I shared that same insight in a Facebook post. A pastor friend saw it and immediately declared:

"This should be your next book publication."

God used that moment to challenge me to write this book.

Why This Message Matters

Too many young believers are walking into sexual sin without realizing the long-term consequences. The world has normalized it—even glamorized it—but the truth is, the cost is far greater than we realize.

The story of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife in Genesis 39 reveals that purity is not just about saying no—it’s about choosing God’s best. It’s about protecting your destiny, your integrity, and your relationship with God.

💡 This Book Will Challenge and Equip You to:

✔ Resist temptation and avoid the enemy’s trap.
✔ Understand the hidden costs of sexual sin—spiritually, emotionally, and physically.
✔ Live a life of purity and experience God’s best for relationships and marriage.

📖 Get your copy now! Let’s reclaim God’s plan for intimacy.

📌 https://a.co/d/48Ehu8m

If this resonates with you, SHARE this message with someone who needs to hear it.

Let’s spread the truth together! 🚀📖✨


 

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